Wednesday, 4 February 2015

Honeymoon / Mini moon

Why do we take honeymoons, and why is it called a honeymoon... well other than needing a break after all that organising honeymoons are, according to Wiki:  honeymoon is the traditional holiday taken by newlyweds to celebrate their marriage in intimacy and seclusion. Today, honeymoons by Westerners are often celebrated in destinations considered exotic and/or romantic.  Find more here at Wiki.

I've been searching out honeymoons, the best length of time and for the best cost... brain ache.

So first I wanted to do the train across Eastern Europe for two weeks, H2B hates trains and there is a little too much unrest over there at the mo.  Then I wanted do Washington DC / Charleston SC & Austin then fly to Belize - this didn't fit our time frame or budget, will do them desperately at a later date.

He then suggested the Maldives, I really don't want to spend thousands on a beach, we could go to Greece and have just as much of a good time (or so I think)... I suggested Mauritius as an alternative.  Lovely beaches, good weather, but there is a little more culture and things to see and do.  Problem, May is not a great time to visit Mauritius... back to the Maldivies it seems.  I spent ages looking at Islands comparing them, nothing seems worth the money but we were umming and arrring.

Then today I received my daily email from Voyage Prive and I thought 'let's have a look' and they had a great offer for a luxury hotel in Bali.  Close enough to the Indian Ocean, but with a little more to see and do PERFECT,  Since we are going on a short trip to Bali, we've decided to do another break in Mauritius in November :-)

Places I search for honeymoon:

Mr & Mrs Smith
Virgin Holidays
Expedia
Voyage Prive

I also contacted a few hotels in the Maldives directly.  LUX Maldives do a great honeymoon offer, discounted rate for the Bride, about 70% off.

Tuesday, 27 January 2015

Our DIY Wedding... for under £11k

So we are really pushing to keep our wedding under £11k, this doesn't include the engagement ring, hen/stag dos and the honeymoon.

We also really wanted to minimize cost for our guests, because at our age when everyone is getting married it can become costly!

OUR COST SAVING TIPS:

Homemade 'save the dates' - we bought cheap children's chalk board to write  the details, which will be reused at the wedding, then had our STDs printed at Vista Print who provide free envelopes (see below).


Invites - our friend designed them from picture's/ideas we provided and then our local printers (First Colour London) printed them, who also provided free envelopes.  We created a wedding website to minimize the invite size, adding all the accommodation / travel details to the site www.hopfest15.blogspot.com #HopFest15



Accommodation - we've booked a cottage for the weekend and our top 20 guests will stay for free.

Guests - we've have a total of 76 over the 2 day celebration.  Keeping the numbers small reduces the price... we've been good at saying no to plus ones and unwanted 'extended' family.  Stay strong, its your wedding.

Food - we are doing some of the catering ourselves via M&S / Sainsbury's

DIY Candy Bar - We bought plastic retro sweet jars from Amazon (10 for £10), and then bulk sweets from Makro UK (a huge order for only £55, incl. delivery)

Wedding shoes - using ones I already owned.

Outfits - Vintage dress from House of Vintage Brides and my second outfit was a sale item from Mango.

Flowers - I'll be bulk buying these for bouquets and decoration from the London Chelsea Flower market and doing it myself (max spend £50 for 100 steams of baby's breath).

Wedding Rings - we bought ours from F.Hinds as we wanted plain traditional rings, and this was a way to save a lot.

Decorations - I've bough over 300ft of bunting on eBay for £50, plus ribbons and candles.  We've also collected glass jars and baskets.  I am currently making paper chains from coloured printer paper.  I have also tied ribbons on all the glass jars for a rustic look.

Loki is unimpressed I wont let her help!

Entertainment - we've created a playlist, and hired a PA system (no DJ), plus festival feel entertainment (face painting / temp tattoos / glow sticks / sparklers / garden games / face in the hole) etc. and a bouncy castle!

Photograph - this is where we spent more than budgeted, as we have hired a photog for 2 days plus a Polaroid camera, disposable camera and borrow a friends GoPro.

Confetti - I am making my own by drying rose petals.  We regularly have roses in the house and this is a really easy cheap personal touch.



Vouchers - we received loads of vouchers for Christmas, and I have found a few online, saving us £250

Our biggest spends were venue hire (incl cottage for 4 nights) and photographer at £5700k.

Great places to find a cheap alternative:
Amazon
eBay
Ikea
Marks & Spencers
Tesco
Twitter
Any high street pound shop

Monday, 8 December 2014

Wedding Stress...

Yes wedding are exciting, but the planning is not always fun... even with an endless budget there are little things to worry about.

I am finding it particularity difficult planning a wedding in the style I didn't really want to keep my H2B and the families happy, especially when it feels like a fight just to get his in put.

What to do?  Leave it and let him organise and accept it probably wont be how you imagined... or just do it all yourself and slightly resent him.

Monday, 24 November 2014

One Appointment, One Wedding Dress Bought!

So that wasn't to hard.., I had originally wanted a sparkly, beaded wedding dress, and I thought I'd end up with a prom dress as I had set a rather tight budget.  I really don't like the idea of spending hundred if not thousands on a dress I'll wear once!

So after suggesting to H2B that I might wear a coloured dress as most prom dresses aren't ivory or white he wasn't to keen, that is when I gave up on sparkles and went for a vintage dress.

I Google, I tweeted, I search and search... Etsy, eBay and all the other places I thought I could find vintage.  All I really came across was replica vintage wedding dresses, then I found Vintage Lane Bridal in Bolton, which I was going to visit later in the year as I live in London.

One night on twitter I saw a post by Brides magazine suggestion vintage brides to check out House of Vintage in Shorditch London... boom!

I booked my appointment for this Saturday just gone, Nov 22nd, my 'Maids' and myself picked 8-10 dresses and started the process of elimination.

Whilst trying the dresses on we were talking to the shop owner Marcia and she put one of our dresses to the end, to try on last.  As she had decided which she mentioned later sound like what I had originally wanted when describing how we came about to want a vintage dress.

I put this little number on and wow, there and then both the 'Maids', myself and Marcia thought it was a winner.  I'd also picked one other I was keen on from our selection.  We stood and eyed them both up and had a chat about HopFest15.

I was hesitant to buy it there and then, it was a lot of money to spend, having not seen any other dresses... but I thought if I don't buy it now someone else will, and to be honest I really hated the process of trying all these dresses on and once bought I can tick that off my list!  So 30-45 mins into our appointment I had bought my wedding dress :-)



Both Vintage Lane and House of Vintage Brides have all sorts of dress and pics do not do them justice.  If you are a bride on a budget, love vintage styling or just want something more unique do check them out.

Prices range from £200 - 1000.  Mine was a total of £650, which for an almost fulled beaded dress quite the bargain.

* one thing to be aware: vintage dresses my have some damage from the age... mine is missing a few beads on the very bottom.  Which you can't see when on and if I wanted I could have fixed.

Friday, 21 November 2014

Wedding Planning... so far

The fiance and I got engaged Sept 14th, and after a weeks break got straight into the wedding planning as we are getting married May 8th 2015... giving us only 7 or so months to plan!

Thankfully we had found the reception venue pre engagement, so I just went a head and confirmed that... then we viewed 3 venues for the ceremony, once that was decided we booked the registrar.

We have also confirmed the big items: marquee hire / toilets / photographer / catering and gave notice of marriage.

H2B & Bestman are in charge of finding beer kegs to hire & bar, PA system and suits.

Bridesmaid and myself are doing the DIY element, which turns out eBay and Amazon are amazing for.

As we are having a wedfest I've been buying bunting, face paint, glow sticks, glitter, temporary tattoos... 

And tomorrow I have my first wedding dress shopping appointment at House Of Vintage in Shoreditch London.

So much still to do and sadly its all the bitty stuff that needs to wait until closer the date!

http://hopfest15.blogspot.co.uk/ #HopFest15 our wedding website :-)

Monday, 3 November 2014

GET THE LOOK: Wedding Festival Theme

This theme is inspired by many modern weddings, and is what we'll be having for our 'big day' next May !

Wedding Festivals are a great way to make the most of your celebration, in a relaxed fun setting.  Must haves:  marquee/ti-pi / food vans / bar / music / hay bales / games / lights & vintage dresses

We are adding fancy dress, face painting etc. for the bestial vibe.

#hopfest15

My pinterest board

Useful link: Festival Bride




Monday, 20 October 2014

Wedding Website... I do?

So HopFest2015 is now in full swing planning mode...it has come up in conversation and just in general research, should be have a wedding website or not?

I was think I could just link it to my blog, through blogger and it might be a good place for people to find info?! But is it impersonal and does anyone actually look at it?

To blog or not to blog...that is the question.

http://glosite.com/

http://uw.theknot.com/admin/choosedesign/

http://www.mywedding.com/free-wedding-websites

Monday, 6 October 2014

Engagement Sexism?

So we've been engaged now for just over 3 weeks and its been lovely, lots of cards, gifts and happy messages from Friends, Family and Work Colleagues.

I get the pleasure of working with Danny my H2B, and something I noticed was a little sexism between the celebratory comments,

We or I received lots of congratulations... he on the other hand received well done, or comments relating to earning potential.

So size of the ring doesn't just matter to girls, it matters to men in the most primal way.  He how can afford the biggest, obviously is the best!  Before now I always felt pressure that it was just a girl wanting a big sparkly diamond.